A noun or an adjective (or a noun as an adjective…I hate grammar)
1. A lesbian who likes to receive sex but not reciprocate
2. A lesbian who enjoys receiving sex…a lot.
Example: My girlfriend is such a pillow queen! I can never get any.
Clarification is needed. It is common knowledge (to the general population) that there is a general separation between lesbians (femme and butches – however, us lesbians know there is a more complex way to categorize a lesbian). A pillow queen isn’t necessarily the more feminine lesbian. Anyone (including you hetero folks!) can be a pillow queen. Like getting sexed but hate giving it? You’re a pillow queen. Want your partner to do all the work and not return the favor? Well, aren’t we a pretty pillow queen! Can also be described as “selfishness”.